Monday, September 30, 2013
Friday, September 27, 2013
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Monday, September 23, 2013
9/23/13
Thursday, September 19, 2013
9/20/13 Smokes All Around
9/19/13
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
9/18/13
Tuesday, September 17, 2013
9/17/13
Monday, September 16, 2013
Friday, September 13, 2013
9/13/13 The Case of the Inconsistent RA Staff
The Case of the Inconsistent RA Staff
You've had a great time as an RA this year and you are so thankful that you were selected for the position . One of the biggest lessons that you've learned this year involves the importance of tough love . You've had some difficult students and have seen how important it is to love them, but hold them accountable as well . You've noticed that this has actually led to them respecting you a bit more than they probably would have, if you had just let things slide .
The toughest rule you've had to enforce has turned out to be charging students a dollar when they get locked out of their rooms . While you think it's a dumb rule, you understand its importance in teaching people to be more responsible . You have set aside your personal opinion on the matter for the sake of the team and for the sake of listening to your supervisor . You're actually glad in some ways because Chuck always forgets his keys and really needs to learn this particular lesson .
One day, you see Chuck walking down the hall with another RA ( John) from the floor below you, who then proceeds to let Chuck into his room . Once John leaves, you ask Chuck why he called John when you were already here and on the floor . He tells you that he's tired of paying you a dollar when he gets locked out of his room and that John is cool about extending grace instead of enforcing rules . He then says that he wished every RA would just relax like John does, and says he's going to try and switch rooms at the end of the semester .
> What would you do?
> How would this affect your relationship with Chuck?
> What would you say to both Chuck and John, if anything?
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Sunday, September 8, 2013
9/9/13
Friday, September 6, 2013
9/6/13
Almost two weeks ago you asked Jose (one of your Resident Assistants) for his help in evacuating the Residence Hall after the city lost power from a Hurricane . Most of the residents were already on fall break so “evacuating” mostly turned out to be making sure no one was still in their rooms . Unbeknownst to you, Jose took it upon himself to collect any of the steaks that had been left in a student’s freezer . He then invited anyone in the area to come over to his friend’s house for a “Hurrication” BBQ party .
You heard about the party a few days ago when a student complained to you about Jose stealing their steaks . You asked what they meant and they told you about the party that Jose hosted with the steaks from their freezer . When you asked Jose about it, he said he didn’t want the meat to be wasted . He didn’t think it was that big of a deal because the meat was going to go bad anyway .
> Did Jose steal the steaks?
> How would you handle this situation with Jose?
> Would you handle the situation differently if it wasn’t a student leader who “stole” the steaks?